Positive Dispute

Discord is something that makes us uncomfortable. Any feelings hurt because of a fight with someone. Relations could even destroyed. However it turns out, there are important benefits behind a dispute. Anything?

Come up with ideas

When odds, you will let others attempted to correct our mistakes. On the bright side, contention is able to bring out creative ideas that you never thought of before.

Get what you want

Most people do not get what they want because they are often silent. But through the disputes, sometimes all the feelings expressed and unload pent-up desires of a person.

Time Management

Overplanning

Sometimes we found that 24 hours a day is not enough to complete various activities. This is the importance of making a plan to determine priorities. Everyone has a different way of determining priority, could be in the form of daily, weekly or monthly. What you choose, the important thing is action. Do not let just busy making plans but nil in the implementation.

There are two symptoms overplanning:

Too busy struggling with the plan and failed to execute the plan that has been made. We just stopped in the plan, but in time management is the implementation would be next.

Making all the activities as the object of the plan. Plan all the things that will be undertaken are necessary, but do not forget, there are times when we must prepare for the unexpected things.

Misplanning

Planning mistake is a mistake both in time management. This planning errors can occur in many forms, among them the wrong information. This happens because the information gathered is incomplete and imprecise. Though accurate information is the key to achieving success set the time. Errors of this information would go a long way, such as misdirected, misplaced resources, wrong timing. If it happens like this, it is definitely the plan will fall apart so failed to achieve the goal.

Achieve Dreams

A life is only once. Too bad if we pass it. Do not until later when we leave this world someday, no achievement ? whatever we have done, which could become the story and the pride of our children and grandchildren. Accomplishments is certainly always starts from a dream. Yes, a dream. No matter what your dream, there is always hope to make it happen. A few steps that can be taken to step closer than your dream that has been made, even if I have realized all of the dream. Hopefully can remove despondent of your confused where to start realizing their dreams.

Plug your Dream

Why this dream must be plugged? So that there is confidence in any process that you will live to step even realize the dream. Because the belief is the beginning of the success or failure of what we do. Be careful with confidence. If not it will drag in the circle of angels, then he will be trapped in your vicious circle. How? Write down all the dreams that you want, accomplish in this life. Make it a kind of a simple list in a book or paper that if it were easy to see in most time. I personally write in a small book, smartphone notes and deskop wallpaper.

Negative Thinking

Negative thinking for most of us may already be part ourself. When things are not according to plan, we easily feel depressed and can not see the good side of the incident. Negative thinking does not carry anywhere, except to make the feelings worse, which then will result in us disappointing performance. This could be an endless loop.

Live

Thinking about the past or the future is something that often makes us anxious. Rarely do we panic because the present events. If you find your mind cooped in what has happened or what had happened, remember that it is only today that we can control.